So now that we’ve had a chance to digest and laugh at my induction to the You Tube World, as I indicated in the last post, there was too much to fit in to one post, and it seemed only appropriate to start this post with the end of the VidCon conference and a fantastic movie that came out recently:
Nerve is a great movie to go see with your kids and to then have a conversation about the extraordinary possibilities and terrifying dangers of the Internet. It’s fictional, of course, but I don’t think it’s too far off where we’re going! It also reminded me that if I start getting large infusions of cash into my bank account, I am NOT to believe what my kid tells me about them!!
And, check out SilVRthread – they created a virtual reality game based on the movie that even I was entertained by (and first time ever I haven’t gotten motion sick with one of those things). Don’t I look as cool as my kid?! Ok, maybe my mom sweater and her uber buff arms give me away, but otherwise we look the same!
As I said last time, I’m scared sh*tless of social media, but VidCon wasn’t all about You Tubers and their crazy antics (think car chases, drinking water from their dirty shoes, waxing their faces with candle wax, and on and on), there were also some incredible people I would have cheered for, and now here’s my chance.
This Star Won’t go Out – www.tswgo.org
Uplift – Online Communities Against Sexual Violence – www.uplifttogether.org
Harry Potter Alliance – www.thehpalliance.org
These and so many other non-profits have been supported by the Project for Awesome. This is an effort every year by the You Tube community to raise money and awareness for organizations like these. So far they’ve raised over $1.5 million. While I’m pretty sure none of these booths would have showed up in my kid’s Instagram feed, they are in my “feed” because they are . . . well, awesome!!
VidCon Super Secret Decoder Ring
And now I’ll close with what I call the VidCon (and quite possibly the Millennial) Super Secret Decoder Ring. Shhhhh, don’t tell any of them I told you.
Here are some of my favorite decoded messages:
When I asked the Superego why she loved VidCon she said
“It’s a place where everybody accepts you for who you are.”
And when I asked why she watches these You Tubers do ridiculous things like get pie in the face or hot wax on their face or drink water from their dirty shoes, she said
“Mom, these are real people doing real things that all of us think about doing and they show what really happens. It’s not scripted or made up”.
I have finally accepted that Pandora’s box is open and I can’t put my girls in a tower somewhere like Rapunzel. So, while I’m still as clueless as ever, I’m also more motivated than ever to crack the code on You Tube and how to support my child’s social media presence within parameters that I’m comfortable. Met some pretty awesome mommas while at VidCon and we have some things up our sleeves, so stay tuned.
In the meantime, check out this cute video the daughter of one of my new VidCon mom friends made about You Tube “slang”. How else would I have gotten that secret decoder ring!
And, because I’m curious about this too – in your opinion, what’s the best thing about our kids having social media as a tool?
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